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Do Tell: Did You Go Through an Awkward Phase?

Fri, 08/08/2008 - 6:00am by DearSugar
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There’s just something about adolescence — and I think it has a lot to do with hormones — that tends to bring out the awkwardness in people. Admittedly, I had my own awkward phase, but it was when I was nine. I was too gangly for my own good, with teeth too big for my small mouth and a terrible bowl haircut. Needless to say, it wasn’t pretty, but I think hitting a point in your life when you just don’t quite fit in or know how to act is about as normal as it gets. Were you one of the lucky few that skipped it altogether or did you have an awkward phase like me?

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  • kythera's picture
    kythera
    1

    Yes! And it was horrible. I was made fun of 24/7, my family was poor so I had to wear Walmart clothing, and lots more including being depressed. I decided to move out of my hometown because the people there were THAT bad.

    It's all good though, I turned out to be a pretty cool chick, and I don't have a problem with finding nice friends, and I make my own money so I can buy nicer clothing.

    I think we all go through an awkward phase in our adolescence. It's all a part of growing up and becoming who you are.

    Cool

    21 weeks 5 days ago Report Comment
  • Marni7's picture
    Marni7
    2

    Of course! Junior High kinda sucked..I had huge glasses and my dad cut my bangs too short lol
    My family also didnt have money but in my neighborhood noone really did yet you still had those that made fun of you for having one pair of sneakers! It sucked but now (thank god) we are in a better place and I have a million pairs of shoes lol..and I cant wait to run into one of those heffers!

    21 weeks 5 days ago Report Comment
  • sundaygreen's picture
    sundaygreen
    3

    Oh yes for sure, didn't everyone? Even though you might not necessarily look awkward, it's easy to feel awkward from your tweens all through high school!

    21 weeks 5 days ago Report Comment
  • indieglam's picture
    indieglam
    4

    I didn't realize I went through an awkward phase until a few years after high school when I was looking through pictures from middle school and early high school... my first thoughts were, "Damn. Was I really that painfully awkward?!" It didn't feel like it at the time but looking back... eek.

    21 weeks 5 days ago Report Comment
  • cjmara805's picture
    cjmara805
    5

    In 6th grade I got braces AND a neck gear and had to wear the contraption to school. On top of that I was starting my 10 year battle with acne. This was when everyone was starting to become interested in boys, and I always wondered why no boy would ask me out Sad

    Of course everything's fine now, I'm a bit awkward and clumsy now but I own it. It's just a part of who I am.

    21 weeks 5 days ago Report Comment
  • skigurl's picture
    skigurl
    8

    indieglam, i'm the same! i didn't feel that awkward, but when i look back it was just awful. my face looks swollen in so many pictures from mid-highschool and i had huge zits all the time. so terrible. i'm sooooo thankful for how i look now. don't ask me how i got here!

    21 weeks 5 days ago Report Comment
  • Safety Pin's picture
    Safety Pin
    10

    javsmav that's my line. I think awkward is just a lifestyle now. At least it makes for interesting conversations.

    21 weeks 5 days ago Report Comment
  • L7amiguita's picture
    L7amiguita
    11

    I don't think I ever really had an awkward phase. I was always a bit of a tomboy growing up and that hasn't changed much now that I'm in my 20s. I'm still the only girl that plays ball with the guys. The only thing that has changed is that I wear make-up now Smiling

    21 weeks 5 days ago Report Comment
  • chatondeneige's picture
    chatondeneige
    13

    I'm with javsmav, I'm 23, and I don't think I'm out of my awkward phase... I'm a little clumsy and totally not cool, so maybe that's just who I am. Smiling

    21 weeks 5 days ago Report Comment
  • jessie's picture
    jessie
    14

    sixth grade, braces, the fad of big glasses, frizzy curly hair..need i say more...yikes!

    21 weeks 5 days ago Report Comment
  • gooniette's picture
    gooniette
    15

    I was an early developer (and I had an unusually large head), so in sixth grade, the huge t-shirt phase started and lasted through eighth...
    Luckily, I grew into my head by high school.

    21 weeks 5 days ago Report Comment
  • Sun_Sun's picture
    Sun_Sun
    16

    yeaaa...like from grade 6 to grade 9
    hahahah
    i would literally buy boys clothes, walk like a boy, act like a boy. never cared about how i looked. i think i thought i looked damn good Sticking out tongue omg but the pictures say otherwise!!!!! i dont really remember my transition from boy-ish to girl-ish.....hmmmm

    21 weeks 5 days ago Report Comment
  • CYL's picture
    CYL
    17

    Childhood sucked ass....I was awkard until Universeity Smiling and life is now way better; since I have 'grown' into my own skin.

    21 weeks 5 days ago Report Comment
  • kayla74's picture
    kayla74
    18

    I was awkward until college too. I had horribly crooked teeth until my braces came off in 8th grade. I had HUGE glasses until then too. I barely wore makeup and wore nothing but tshirts until college.

    At least I can tell my friends who have been friends with me since middle school have loved me for my personality and definitely not my looks.

    21 weeks 5 days ago Report Comment
  • austerity's picture
    austerity
    19

    I was awkward as hell in my preteens. Horrible haircut, huge milk-bottle spectacles, gangly, too tall and too thin, braces, weird clothes, high grades (apparently that is not something to be proud of during the highschool phase) and on top of all that not afraid to speak my mind even at a young age...which made me not so popular with the in-crowd. I never cared less though. Luckily, I turned into a swan later on Eye-wink

    21 weeks 5 days ago Report Comment
  • kristinamarie's picture
    kristinamarie
    20

    Of course! I was chubby from like 9 up until 17. Haha. Not to mention the fact that I didn't understand how to blow dry my curly frizzy hair until junior year of high school. I think awkward phases are essential. You're forced to develop a super cool and funny personality to make up for your awkwardness. The kids that were always beautiful always seem to be the most dull IMO.

    21 weeks 5 days ago Report Comment
  • Frank y Ava's picture
    Frank y Ava
    21

    6th and 7th grade, i was insanely skinny and i wore glasses. I felt like a complete geek.

    21 weeks 5 days ago Report Comment
  • Silverlining10's picture
    Silverlining10
    22

    I was awkward when I started getting pimples. Those were the worst. I wore foundation to cover it up, but then, wondered why it was only getting worse. I remember standing in line at a vending machine at school in like 8th grade, and an attractive "popular" guy turns around and exclaims, "DAAAAMN! You have a lot of acne!" Then, when his friend kinda shoved him, he responded, "But...You're still cute." I was horrified!

    Then, I went through a chubby phase (per my choice) from 10th grade to senior year, so it was uncomfortable having people asking why my face was so round, and being pressured by my parents to lose weight.

    21 weeks 5 days ago Report Comment
  • roseate's picture
    roseate
    23

    Early middle school. I wanted glasses because my older sister had them, and I looked terrible in the pair I picked out.

    21 weeks 5 days ago Report Comment
  • AnnaMaria816's picture
    AnnaMaria816
    24

    I know I did. I honestly didn't look very good from age 8-19 and was kind of shy in school. But I was very sociable, blunt and funny in my personal life so I always had friends. I developed talent in music and theatre. I also did a lot of volunteer service as well. I'm thankful that I wasn't a beautiful child or teen because it helped me focus more on developing my personality and talents.

    On the downside, being teased for my appearance caused me to think of myself as ugly.For example, when I was around 16-17 years old I was picked on by a guy in my drama classes often. He constantly cracked jokes about my gangly frame, sharp teeth, low voice, ect. People laughed along so I began to think of myself as a walking joke. It took a year of counseling to help me develop a healthier body image.

    21 weeks 5 days ago Report Comment
  • sparklestar's picture
    sparklestar
    25

    The kid in the picture might as well be me! I found some old school pictures the other day and I can't believe how awful I used to look!

    My awkward phase ended at about... age 22? Smiling It was terrible before then! No style, no fashion sense... nothing! Terrible...

    I'm still pretty socially awkward though. Some things never change!

    21 weeks 5 days ago Report Comment
  • havok636's picture
    havok636
    26

    ugh, i was the fat quiet weird kid until 11th grade.
    it was really bad in middle school, but in high school people started seeing how funny i was...

    needless to say, i didn't date

    21 weeks 5 days ago Report Comment
  • stumbler02's picture
    stumbler02
    27

    I was awkward until the fall I started college. It was horrible growing up that way. I didn't develop any self confidence or social skills in my adolescence and really suffered for it. I think family has a lot to do with it, because you really can mitigate physical awkwardness. Some families are more likely to promote athletic involvement. Participating in sports makes you less physically awkward. And an understanding family helps a teen with basic appearance issues (like acne, glasses, braces at a reasonable age). My family was horrible...my mom never let me go outside because of my complexion, so I had terrible physical confidence and never learned to be athletic. She wanted me to get braces at age 17. She didn't help me shave my legs until I was in 11th grade. So I was horribly awkward and hated the way I looked and felt. It was the worst when special occasions came by and people acted shocked at how I wasn't actually ugly. Adolescence is a cruel time...

    21 weeks 5 days ago Report Comment
  • designergirl's picture
    designergirl
    28

    Middle school was by far the worst. Acne, glasses, slightly chubby- it was just bad. Not that high school was much better with eating disorders, etc... Of course, I'm still socially awkward, but I'm a lot prettier now.

    21 weeks 5 days ago Report Comment
  • looseseal's picture
    looseseal
    30

    Hee, javsmav.

    I've never been cool and I'm probably never going to be cool. All I can do is be a little more at peace with that fact as time goes on.

    21 weeks 4 days ago Report Comment
  • Jeny's picture
    Jeny
    31

    Yes I definitely went through a weird phase. I was artsy and filled in my eyebrows with a redish pencil lol and my face broke out all over the place. My hair was long and stringy and I had no idea who I was. This went on from about 7th to 9th grade

    21 weeks 4 days ago Report Comment
  • Megatron's picture
    Megatron
    32

    Oh yeah! Pretty much late elementary, all of jr. high and the majority of high school.I had glasses and braces and was a really chunky kid.

    21 weeks 4 days ago Report Comment
  • intensebandgeek's picture
    intensebandgeek
    33

    I'm with you, Twinkle! Growing up was never bad, but I'm going through my awkward phase now and I'm turning 21 in a month and graduating from college this spring. I have THE WORST acne, crooked glasses, frizzy hair, and I'm a bit too chubby for my own good.
    Whoever said your awkward phase is early on in life is a LIAR!!! Sad

    21 weeks 4 days ago Report Comment
  • myystque's picture
    myystque
    35

    Definitely! I hated middle school--I felt like everyone made fun of me and as though I had no friends. High school was a little better, but even now, I have trouble keeping and making friends, especially with women. I still envy those girls/women who have a clique of their own, but I'm at least more sure of myself now.

    21 weeks 4 days ago Report Comment
  • neonbee's picture
    neonbee
    36

    I'm still living this stage. The last time I wasn't so awkward was when I was, what, 7. I'm so petite that most people fail to see that I exist.

    21 weeks 4 days ago Report Comment
  • GlowingMoon's picture
    GlowingMoon
    37

    Yes. Awkward was my middle name. I was especially awkward and confused as a teen. I was somewhat awkward in my 20's, adjusting to adulthood and being out of school the first time in my life.

    Now that I'm in my 30's, I'm finally comfortable in my own skin. It's been an interesting journey. Smiling

    21 weeks 4 days ago Report Comment
  • Red315's picture
    Red315
    39

    Ugh elementary school! My sister was the perfect blonde hair, blue eyed girl & I have red hair, freckles galore, and wanted to be nothing like her so I only had boy friends. Unfortunately my mother owns a clothing store so she dressed me in every girly dress or outfit she could find! I hated it! Then around fifth grade I thought I was artsy & got new "hip" glasses which made me look like an idiot! Thank goodness a friend accidentally smacked me square in the face in a hardcore game of tetherball. Yes, I had to walk around school with tape holding them together the rest of the day but soon after got my contacts! I think that was the end of that wretched phase.

    21 weeks 4 days ago Report Comment
  • GirlNinja's picture
    GirlNinja
    42

    I've felt awkward ever since I had my son. This new body is just so foreign.

    21 weeks 2 days ago Report Comment
  • melody20's picture
    melody20
    43

    Yeah! I was veeeeeeeeeeeery weird in elementary school! LOL
    My classmates thought i was crazy! Prefer not to specify! rofl

    15 weeks 3 hours ago Report Comment

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