Many of you admitted to enjoying talking dirty, but I'm sure there are just as many of you who have yet to give it a go. It's true that dirty talk done wrong can be fairly awkward, but when you do it right, it can be a total turn-on for both you and your man. So if you're ready to try something new, here's my crash course in talking dirty.
- Fortunately, dirty talk is more about attitude than what you're actually saying. So no matter what you say, just make sure you use your tone of voice to really sell it.
- Try reading some erotica beforehand. Not only will it get you in the mood, but it might just give you something to talk about.
- If you're noisy in the bedroom, use that sound to your advantage. Moans and gasps can give way to the most natural dirty talk!
- Take baby steps. Start by throwing in a few sexual and arousing words during your usual lovemaking routine, and as you get more comfortable, amp it up. The more you get into it, the more he will, too.
- If you're shy at first, don't feel like you have to shout; it's just as sexy to whisper into his ears.
- Though I'm positive your man is going to be more than excited once he hears your dirty talk, if you want to get him more directly involved, start by asking him questions. He's sure to offer his own sexy response.
- Once you've gotten more comfortable, use dirty talk as a way of expressing your wants and needs in the heat of the moment. It's a great way to open communication in bed without it getting awkward or too technical.
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For those dirty-talk veterans out there, what are your tips for the newbies?
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well tomatoshirt...i'd have to think it would either be c*ck or c*nt..but i could be wrong....and i've been wrong a lot..lol
Even after being in a relationship for 5 and a half years, it's still hard for me to do it! Sometimes it comes naturally, like when it's hot and heavy or I'm just really drunk. If I'm trying to get a phone sex thing going, I'll have him start it out first, have him ask the questions, as the list above suggested. Or talk about a real situation that's happened before, then you can create new fantasies.
Don't be too scurred to try it out! Your boyfriend will appreciate it and think you're the coolest girlfriend ever.