Since sex can be somewhat embarrassing to talk about, I gave you all an opportunity to ask whatever burning questions you had over the weekend, anonymously of course. A lot of you were curious about the booty, and I wasn't all that surprised — anal sex isn't the easiest or most PC topic to discuss! Since it was top of mind for many, I'm curious to know if you've ever experimented with anal sex before, so tell me . . .
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Why are there only 3 options?? How about those of us who have tried it and didnt like it? C'mon DearSugar, you're dropping the ball here!
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Exactly, Fallen! Where is "Yes, but since I don't equate the feeling of having to take a massive sh*t with sex, I wasn't so much into that."
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LoL, the Back Door...there should be more choices in indeed, how about those of us Who haven't and don't want to?
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Your answer would probably be "No way" GScott.
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Anal sex is wonderful. I started doing it with my ex and I LOVE it. I'm completely hooked and he loved it too. Unfortunately since we're not together anymore I don't do it that much anymore. But I have introduced it to the new guy that I'm sleeping with and he likes it as well. I don't really understand why some women are so uptight about it. I think its fine if you try it and don't like it. But I think people should disregard all of the myths about it and find out about it for themselves.
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Never have, never shall...
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I didn't like it.. perhaps it was the man and his technique... maybe if he was more gentle and lube.
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I agree again, with smileyface. Just because I wasn't a fan doesn't mean someone else wouldn't be. And it's not because it was painful or anything else... the feeling of "fullness" in that area just made me want to run to the bathroom.
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I keep giving it chances because I want to like it but it's still too painful to enjoy but I'll keep trying. After 6 years with the same guy, you gotta jazz (or ass) it up some how.
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Never have and Never will. It's a very personal choice for me.
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yes and i didn't like it. at all.
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I like anal sometimes. the thing is you have to relax and go slow until you open up then it is very enjoyable. but then i am a freak, some of us are.
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Okay...I have tried to have anal. Lots of lube isn't all it takes to get an above average (in my case) or even an average penis into that one way hole. LOTS of practice with fingers is in order before trying to give it a go. I have tried twice without using the fingers as practice before even thinking about the penis -- and unfortunately, I actually started tearing up a bit (as in crying) because of the pain. Not to mention the fact that moving or sitting, or...living hurt for a week+. HOWEVER, I am still wanting to try again. For now, I will say -- I am not a huge, huge fan.
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lol, Yes i have tried it.. Haven't decided if i really like it cause the first time was weird and haven't tried it again since lol
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agree with comment 1~~
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tried it years ago when we were first married and he just jammed it in there...OMFG..i cried and didn't sit right for a week!!!!!!! we've actually been talking about the last few weeks....i need to prepare myself...a glass of wine...romantic setting...huge bottle of lube...lol.....i guess it because of the "size" that bothers me ...i can handle his finger down there no problem...but his **ck..hmmm scares me a bit...TMI..i know..but being honest here......
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Worst poll ever. I think this really needs to be re-done. I'm interested in what's "normal," but there aren't enough options.
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Where is the option for "Yes I have and didn't like it" ??
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I didn't answer the survey because I did try it, and I will not again. No way.
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Yeah I want the option for I have tried it and didn't like it. My husband is strangely fascinated with the back door and has been trying to get me to do it again. I am still hesitate.
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How about no, I'm just not interested right now. No Way!, makes it seem like you're passing a value judgment or think it's gross and would never ever be up for it.
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It's like wearing a strap on for me. I had never been interested before, but I had nothing against it. Now all of a sudden I have an interest in looking into buying one for myself.
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If all of these guys are so interested in the back door, and many of you don't like it but feel like you will do it to make your man happy, why don't you just shove something up his ass? I am totally serious here..... Maybe he could get pleasure out of it, and you wouldn't have to undergo the pain. Or, maybe it will be really uncomfortable, and he will understand how you may be feeling about it. Just sayin'.
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Okay, this may sound sick but is an honest opinion/advice. Have done it many times before and I like it. It does require a bit of prep work for me as in: have I done a poo that day (yes = not happening, like to have a clean work area), lots of lube, relaxed atmosphere, approach it slowly not just jamming it in and probably best tackling it in a side by side position. It can be awkward as you feel as though you just need to do a big poo constantly however if you relax enough its ok. I personally like kissing and as a must, my cl!t getting played with at the same time, it feels awesome and makes me go off like a freaking firecracker!
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i tried it and absolutely HATED it
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Didn't we just have a very similar post recently? Anyway, for me it's never going to happen. Poo comes out of there, end of story.
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Hahaha. I'm with mondaymoos! That made me laugh out loud. So I guess we could say that anal is sh*ty sex.
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ouch! my choice for the poll would have been tried, hurt too much, cried for a bit then went to bed unsatisfied
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just knowing how dirty feces is prevents me (and the boyfriend, for that matter) from ever thinking this a good idea. Freaks me right out, personally!
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No thanks for me. I don't like it. My husband wants to, but he respects my dislike, I told him we could try again some other day.
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I've wanted to try it but I'm scared it will hurt. I don't want to have the experiences some ladies had...sore ass, bleeding, crying, pain...argh..just doesn't seem like it would be pleasant.
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No, never. Nothing about the idea turns me on. Thankfully, my boyfriend feels the same way.
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My ex wanted to try it all the time and would joke about how it was anal night at his house that night. I would go into gross details about him having/getting a poopy dick and that shut him up pretty quick!
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Yep with my exes. Well, the thing is, it's not so bad with well-lubrication and smaller size penis. LOL.
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I agree with Fallen. where is the "I tried it but didn't like it"
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I think guys like it/want to try it because it's always seen all on pornos!... thats what my guys friends say
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I agree with some of the ladies here, not enough answers to choose from. I would go with "yes, but HATE it cuz it hurts like hell and it's gross". I've only tried it with 2 guys, an ex of 4 years, and my husband. The ex kept telling me that his ex's loved it...bleh. I think it's gross and it does NOT feel good at all.
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Ok....men definately watch too much porn to think they can just jam it in. So sorry that happen to the ladies on here. If it is done right you shouldn't hurt or bleed. I didn't like it because i felt liek I had to poop the whole time...but I never hurted for a week afterwards...maybe just the first few hours there was some discomofort. HE CANNOT JAM it up there like they do in PORN. IT will hurt and bleed if it does. In porn a lot of those women are probably either a) loose from doing it as a living or b) were loosened up off camera. You really need a lot of lub and ease into it with fingers first. Try having him make you have an orgasm first so you are more relaxed..and doggy style penetration which men think is the only way in can be more painful since the angle allows for deeper penetration and him to control the thrust.
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It's such a personal choice. I say do it for yourself, if you like it. Not because the guy wants a tighter orifice than the ones you've been letting him at, not because it's his fantasy or he's reenacting a porno, not because he wants you to play his "dirty girl" or "wh*re" or anything like that. If you want to experiment with it, do it! Be smart and know how to do it in the most health-conscious and comfortable way for your body. If it's something YOU want, be willing to try anything once.
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I agree with a lot of the other comments. While I have tried it, it wasn't enjoyable, and I tried to be a good sport and do it a few times. Totally not for me!
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Oh God, I feel like a dirty, filthy wh*re [blushing]. After these results, I didn't realise that there's so many women who really don't do it at all nor even entertain the idea of trying it once. Is this the case with blowies as well? Cause I freaking love them and yes, I do swallow [still blushing].
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ahh I've tried it a few times, it's so painful and only pleasurable to the man (in my opinion)
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tried a little and didn't like it..at all!
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back door man..what a great jim morrison song I've never tried it, so I cant say I am for or against something I've never tried, I just dont have a strong interest in trying it yet
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There aren't really enough responses to this question . . perhaps something like "Yes I have, but it's not for me". I won't disclose my response, but I think this is a fair answer many girls would have.