
As kids it’s nearly impossible to see our parents as anything but our parents, but as we grow older it’s not uncommon to gain a deeper insight into our parents’ lives outside of their parental roles. In the last few years I’ve learned more about my parents as individuals than I did when I lived with them for two decades. And though they’ll always be Mom and Dad, now that I’m an adult and I have a different perspective on parenthood, I’ve really started see them for the people they are.

As someone who offers a lot of advice, I’m often asked questions in which it’s clear to me that the asker already knows the answer. In fact, they’re often first to point out that they know exactly what to do, but they’re just unable to do it. I had been thinking a lot about this and then it dawned on me; they’re probably just looking for permission to do the “wrong” thing.

Even though tons of
colleges have animals as mascots, they may not be welcome inside dorm doors. I attended a university where nearly everyone lives on campus for all four years . .

It's a fairly common dating affliction; to be turned off when someone shows their interest in you. I suffered from it back in high school, but I know many people who continuously struggle to stay intrigued once they've caught the object of their affection's attention. Of course being pursued feels great, but what I don't think people understand is that the feeling of being desired doesn't necessarily go away because you've made a connection with someone.

Not only do they
lift us up when we're feeling down, but our pets pretty much eliminate any excuse not to get at least some
exercise. Rats. In addition to jogs around the park or rousing catch'n'chase games, many gyms (
mine included) offer activities like this Ruff Yoga or Doga – what's your favorite workout to do with your pooches?

I may only have one "kid" at home (
with a ton of nicknames), but I've accidentally blurted out the wrong name in the past. Have you ever called your pets by the name of another pet or – gasp! – by the name of a Sig-O or human child?

In the movies, romance is dozens of red roses, diamonds, sunsets, and surprise proposals. Sure, those things can be romantic in real life too, but we all know that romance is not so easily categorized, and it's often not even planned. Personally I think of romance as a feeling or a moment that leaves me breathless, rather than a specific action or item.

Many, though certainly not all, siblings naturally find themselves in
competitive relationships. The fact is that even if you’re raised under the same roof, people are different, and as such, they develop relationships differently too. In every family there are certain members who connect, and others who consistently find themselves having the same arguments.

It's so hard to describe our furry friends with a single word, even if there are some we
subconsciously associate with dogs or cats. I spent a good hour trying to come up with one to describe my pet – my friends' and family's suggestions ranged from adorable (my mom) to hyper (my neighbor), and I finally settled on "spirited." Sounds nice but still gets at my pup's lively essence.

Thanks to a wonderful suggestion from
Looseseal, I'm here to give you all a chance to share your comebacks for the most
frustrating question asked when you're single: Why don't you have a boyfriend? Not only does that question put us on the spot, but no answer ever seems good enough when the reality is just that we haven't met the right person yet! So ladies, have at it and tell me how you respond to such questions.