
Dear Sugar,
I have two daughters, one is
getting married in September and one is
having a baby in September. Would it be OK to combine their showers and have one big one as opposed to two smaller ones. — Curious Mom Melinda
Dear Curious Mom Melinda,
While it makes perfect sense to simply combine the two showers, I can almost guarantee that your daughters would have some hurt feelings if you went that route.

Although I love the traditional female-only showers and bachelorette parties, I think there’s something really fun about the concept of sharing those special occasions with the man in your life. Then again, before taking the plunge, some serious girl time is definitely in order. Plus sometimes throwing guys into the mix only makes things more complicated and less fun; there's really nothing like just being with the girls.

If
bridal showers just aren't your style, consider hosting a couples shower. Coed, or "Jack and Jill" showers — in which the groom invites his male friends and family — are becoming more and more common. Think of a couples shower more like an engagement party.

This week PartySugar's busy planning a spectacular
Bridal Shower. There's a fantastic
menu and beautifully-made
printable invites. However if you're the one headed to the shower, not planning it, I found this adorable kitchen "cake" for you to bring.

Some offices have the tradition of celebrating a bride-to-be with an office bridal shower. These resemble your usual shower typically put on by friends and family, except it's planned by your office mates and the guest list is limited to your female co-workers. Sometimes the women spearheading the shower will try and surprise the bride and they secretly send invitations to all female employees and include registry information.

If you're planning a wedding-related party, anything from an engagement party to a bachelorette bash, why not do something a little different. Since weddings are pretty stressful, everyone will appreciate a party that'll help release some of the tension and anxiety. I'm talking about a Yoga Party, and it's sure to encourage some calmness, self-reflection, and emotional renewal, which every bride and bridesmaid need.
If you don't know of any Yoga instructors in your area, or if you happen to be traveling elsewhere for the party, why not hire someone from
Yoga For Weddings.

A
bridal shower is normally a female only event so plan a menu that is light with plenty of vegetarian options. Instead of serving a full meal or
sit down salad at
Elena's bridal shower, we'll offer guests an assortment of delectable crostini. Crostini — which means little toasts in Italian — can be topped with an endless amount of toppings.
Wedding showers are notorious for their getting-to-know-you games, like making a wedding dress out of toilet paper or seeing how few times you can say the word "wedding." Though in theory, games should be fun, sometimes they’re just not. I love the idea of doing something at the shower that both the young and old can participate in, but I think that the typical games can be a little blah if not flat-out cheesy. But ladies, what do you think.

Isn't it fabulous how many parties are associated with a
wedding. For my girlfriend Elena, I've already planned an
engagement party and the
reception. This week I'm planning her bridal shower.

Planning parties has become infinitely easier with the advent of the Internet. I've shown you online tools for
planning your wedding and
your registry, but there's also a ton of help on the Internet for planning a wedding shower.
Whether you're the one getting married or a friend of the bride and groom throwing the party, trust me — online planning is where it's at.