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 <title>Do Tell: Have You Ever Had a Pregnancy Scare? </title>
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 <description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;inline left&quot;&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;http://images.teamsugar.com/files/upl1/0/3362/41_2008/Woman-Robe.xlarger.jpg&quot; alt=&quot;&quot; title=&quot;&quot; class=&quot;left image xlarger&quot; height=&quot;400&quot; width=&quot;266&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;Unless you’re currently trying for children, your sex life is probably focused on not getting pregnant as much as it is on the sex itself. Since we know all about the &lt;a href=&quot;http://dearsugar.com/tags/birth+control&quot; &gt;various methods of contraception&lt;/a&gt; out there, we also know that none of them are 100 percent effective. If you’re having sex, there’s always a slim possibility you could get pregnant. And if you have a regular period, missing it for even a day could send you rushing out for pregnancy tests. So ladies, in your attempts to avoid it, have you ever had a pregnancy scare?&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.gettyimages.com&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Source&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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 <pubDate>Mon, 13 Oct 2008 15:00:00 -0700</pubDate>
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 <title>Dear Poll: Are You Scared of Being Alone?</title>
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.gettyimages.com&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Source&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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 <pubDate>Wed, 23 Jul 2008 16:00:00 -0700</pubDate>
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 <title>Handle This: Your Wedding Is Weeks Away, But You Have Doubts</title>
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 <description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;inline left&quot;&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;http://images.teamsugar.com/files/upl1/0/3362/28_2008/stk108532cor.preview.jpg&quot; alt=&quot;&quot; title=&quot;&quot; class=&quot;right image preview&quot; height=&quot;330&quot; width=&quot;330&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;You and your fianc&amp;eacute; have been planning your nuptials for nine months.  You&#039;ve had your &lt;a href=&quot;http://dearsugar.com/tags/bridal+shower&quot; &gt;bridal shower&lt;/a&gt;, and everything is booked with all the details in place. But recent fights with your fianc&amp;eacute; have led you to see your relationship more clearly than ever. Suddenly you&#039;re not sure if this is the person you want to spend the rest of your life with. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;You love your fianc&amp;eacute; dearly, but you feel like there are things you&#039;ve ignored for a while that just aren&#039;t working for you. The idea of canceling your wedding is humiliating and terrifying — both sets of parents will be devastated — but you&#039;re also scared of making a mistake, so how would &lt;i&gt;you&lt;/i&gt; handle this?&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.gettyimages.com&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Source&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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 <pubDate>Tue, 22 Jul 2008 14:00:00 -0700</pubDate>
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 <title>Cheetahs, and Tigers, and Crows, Oh My! </title>
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 <description>&lt;p&gt;When a wild animal is discovered running loose on the streets, peeps go batsh*t. The animal, on the other hand, remains as calm as can be. The following surveillance footage shows what happens when unsuspecting pedestrians have surprise encounters with animals typically found in the wild. Their reactions, although totally warranted, are hilarious. Most of them make a run for it. Meanwhile, a tiger with a Frisbee in his mouth is left wondering where the hell he can find a bottle of agua up in this liquor store . . .&lt;/p&gt;
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 <pubDate>Tue, 17 Jun 2008 13:00:00 -0700</pubDate>
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 <title>Handle This: Followed Home</title>
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 <description>&lt;p&gt;Walking home from a friend’s house late on a Thursday night, you notice a man hovering about a block behind you. He seems to be minding his own business, so you try not to worry and instead, focus on getting home quickly. However in just a few minutes he’s only 20 feet behind you.  &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Of course there’s no way to be sure that he’s following you, but your gut tells you something is wrong. You’re a minute away from your house, so how would &lt;i&gt;you&lt;/i&gt; handle this? &lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.gettyimages.com&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Source&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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 <category domain="http://www.dearsugar.com/tags/Fear">Fear</category>
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 <pubDate>Wed, 04 Jun 2008 11:00:00 -0700</pubDate>
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 <title>Do Tell: How Do Divorce Statistics Make You Feel About Marriage?</title>
 <link>http://www.idosugar.com/1675457</link>
 <description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;inline left&quot;&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;http://images.teamsugar.com/files/upl1/0/3362/22_2008/stk309214rkn.preview.jpg&quot; alt=&quot;&quot; title=&quot;&quot; class=&quot;right image preview&quot; height=&quot;405&quot; width=&quot;300&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;Sometimes it feels like every time I turn around there’s a new statistic or study that’s related to the increasing divorce rate.  While that kind of research certainly has its place, frankly, it can get pretty depressing.  Fortunately, I know a lot of amazing married couples to remind me that these percentages are just numbers. But even so, it can still feel like divorce is practically inevitable. So ladies, do tell: Does talk about doomed marriages make you hesitate when it comes to taking the next step? &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.gettyimages.com&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Source&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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 <pubDate>Sun, 01 Jun 2008 10:00:00 -0700</pubDate>
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 <title>Scare Tactic Is a Little Too Successful </title>
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 <description>&lt;p&gt;If it&#039;s really the thought that counts, then this dude can&#039;t be blamed for concerning himself with his aunt&#039;s safety. She never locks her front doors and her darling nephew fears the worst. So with the best of intentions, he decides to take action — using a hockey mask and a butcher knife. What a gent. Her reaction is priceless. &lt;/p&gt;
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 <pubDate>Sat, 03 May 2008 03:00:00 -0700</pubDate>
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 <title>Little Prankster Has a Cruel Way of Saying &quot;I Love You&quot;</title>
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 <description>&lt;p&gt;Poor Mom. She had a rough week at work, long nights at home, and very little snooze time in between. Now that the weekend has arrived, she can finally catch up on her beauty rest and get lost in a sweet dream or two. Or three. Little does she know, that pint-sized demon she can&#039;t disown is running around the house with a camera in hand, cuz he&#039;s about to give dear ol&#039; mom the ultimate wake-up call. Where&#039;s &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.gigglesugar.com/1047110&quot; &gt;that leash&lt;/a&gt; when you need it?&lt;/p&gt;
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 <pubDate>Fri, 18 Apr 2008 12:30:00 -0700</pubDate>
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 <title>Another Mascot Just &quot;Doing His Job&quot;</title>
 <link>http://www.idosugar.com/1559230</link>
 <description>&lt;p&gt;There are some things I wouldn&#039;t do even if I&#039;d get paid to do them. Like &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.gigglesugar.com/1540704&quot; &gt;this&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.gigglesugar.com/566734&quot; &gt;this&lt;/a&gt;, or &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.gigglesugar.com/1073510&quot; &gt;this&lt;/a&gt;. But the following isn&#039;t one of those things. No sirree. I&#039;d definitely do this. For free.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;Thanks, &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.ebaumsworld.com/video/watch/326794/pc=25651&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;eBaum&#039;s World&lt;/a&gt;!&lt;/p&gt;
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 <pubDate>Fri, 18 Apr 2008 11:00:00 -0700</pubDate>
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 <title>You Asked: He Won&#039;t Commit</title>
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 <description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;inline left&quot;&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;http://images.teamsugar.com/files/upl0/0/3362/09_2008/200368404-001.preview.jpg&quot; alt=&quot;&quot; title=&quot;&quot; class=&quot;left image preview&quot; height=&quot;233&quot; width=&quot;350&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;Dear Sugar, &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I&#039;ve been seeing a man for over a year now, and he can&#039;t give me an affirmative answer as to how he feels for me.  I have known him for over 20 years and would really love to be with him for the rest of my life.  He&#039;s very stable and gives me the sense of security that has always been missing in my life.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I&#039;ll also add that he&#039;s currently seeing another woman that he has been with for over 10 years.  I want so badly to be with him, but because of the lack of commitment, I don&#039;t know whether to just tell him to make up his mind or let me go.  I&#039;ve tried to stay away from him but I just can&#039;t.  What can I do?&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;— I Need Commitment Carolyn&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;To see Dear Sugar&#039;s answer &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.idosugar.com/1081875&quot;&gt;read more&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description>
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